Helen Parker’s Family Matters thoughtfully explores the real-life pressures Gen Z face - from grief to friendship and faith, says our reviewer

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Family Matters by Helen Parker (Instant Apostle) is a compelling Young Adult (YA) novel that explores the real-life challenges Gen Z face today – from friendship and faith to family dynamics.

When Lucy’s mum begins a new relationship, her best friend Ruth senses something is off. As rumours swirl and a disturbing event at the school play brings things to a head, Ruth is forced to act. With her close friend Chris returning for the summer, she’s in a race against time to protect Lucy from harm.

Through its main characters, Ruth and Chris, the book offers a glimpse into how faith plays out in the everyday lives of young people. It is primarily aimed at teenagers aged 13–17 and offers thoughtful insights into topics such as immigrant family experiences, the dangers of grooming, and the pressures of education. 

Family dynamics are a central theme throughout the book. Through secondary characters like Lucy (Ruth’s best friend), Parker shows how children are often more perceptive than adults realise - picking up on what’s really happening beneath the surface. While Lucy’s mum seems happy in her new relationship with Zak, Lucy witnesses his drinking and is exposed to domestic abuse. Parker’s clear, accessible writing allows teenagers and young adults to process these scenes, while gently encouraging reflection on the importance of turning to God for support in difficult times.

The book also thoughtfully explores emotional intelligence. Ruth’s mother, for instance, is a single parent navigating financial strain and grief, yet she often internalises her emotions. Although it is not often easy to recognise, the book stresses the importance of asking questions when things don’t seem right. Parker offers relatable scenarios that show how honest, age-appropriate conversations between parents and children can create space for emotional openness. Teenagers and young adults are naturally inquisitive, and when adults are more transparent about their own challenges, it fosters an environment where questions are welcomed. The novel also illustrates what can happen when this space doesn’t exist - when feelings stay bottled up and unsaid.

Family Matters is full of teachable moments. Through Amy, we see the importance of building a personal relationship with God. Life brings all kinds of pressures - but how often do we take the time to sit down with the young people in our lives and talk about their understanding of the Bible or their walk with Christ?

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Family Matters shines a light on situations that may be potentially harmful, encouraging readers to pay attention to the warning signs. However, it stops short of offering examples of positive ways to navigate these challenges or model healthy communication. While the book serves as a strong starting point for those wanting to understand the issues young people face today, it would have been strengthened by more practical guidance on how to respond. Whether through actionable advice or relevant Bible passages, these additions could have equipped readers, especially teenagers to be more intentional in creating safe spaces, understanding family dynamics, and building stronger, more supportive relationships. Ultimately, this is what makes Family Matters a useful read, rather than a very good one.

Family Matters by Helen Parker is out now

3 stars