By Amanda Held Opelt2023-04-12T09:44:00
When Amanda Held Opelt suffered a season of loss - including three miscarriages and the death of her sister, Rachel Held Evans - she was confronted with sorrow she didn’t know to how face. Why do so many Christians insist on an immediate, redemptive story arc when they experience suffering?
Nearly five years ago, I entered a season of profound loss. It began with the death of my grandmother, followed by three heartbreaking miscarriages. And then, my only sibling died unexpectedly. She had always been my “true north,” so her death left me completely disoriented. It displaced all my landmarks and removed any feeling of security or certainty I’d ever had.
It was in the aftermath of these losses that I noticed something strange. While the people who surrounded me in my grief were kind and empathetic, the words many of them offered were laced with sentimental optimism and saccharine reassurance. They spoke of hope, of my loved ones being in a better place. They spoke of the wonderful spiritual lessons I would learn as a result of this trial, asserting that everything happens for a reason.
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2023-12-12T17:39:00Z By Tim Farron MP
The hope of advent seems a long way off against the backdrop of war, famine and disaster. That’s where lament comes in, says Tim Farron MP
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Scott Baker is a Bible teacher who lives just a mile from The Covenant Christian School, where yesterday’s shooting took place. If the US is to rid itself of this violent scourge, he says, followers of Jesus must obey his words and fight the fear that drives them to buy these deadly weapons
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