By Abi Thomas2023-09-11T07:58:00
Luis Rubiales, president of Spain’s football federation, has resigned, three weeks after kissing Jenni Hermoso on the lips following Spain’s world cup win without her consent. Abi Thomas reflects on her own experiences, and what we can do in the Church to make sure that our physical contact is helpful, honouring to God and one another
The first time I was sexually assaulted, I was 14. On a family holiday in Italy, a man on a crowded ferry began rubbing himself against me. As I tried to get away, he followed. It was only recently that I discovered this is not an unusual practice, and even has a name, “frotteurism”. But at the time I told nobody. I barely understood what had happened myself; I just knew I felt deeply uncomfortable about it.
I’m now 41, but it’s still not unusual for me to receive unwanted sexual advances, comments or even touch. The difference now is that I know it is wrong, and I’m prepared to answer back. On one occasion while riding my bike wearing shorts, a teenager on a school trip made lewd comments from the pavement. When I had processed what he said, I cycled back and explained to the (now silent) student how his words had made me feel. Flustered, his teacher - who had clearly not been planning to address the issue - muttered that he would “take it up back at school”.
2023-09-13T10:09:00Z By Catherine Disher
As part of world childless week, Catherine Disher reflects on her own journey, and what she wishes other Christians knew about not having children
2023-08-30T20:26:00Z By Jane Chevous
Luis Rubiales’ mother locked herself in a church to petition the Lord for her son, who is facing the sack after he kissed Spanish footballer Jenni Hermoso on the lips during World Cup final celebrations. While her motherly instinct to turn to God is well placed, she might not find the answer she is expecting, says Jane Chevous
2021-03-30T15:07:00Z By Michele Guinness
Michele Guinness shares her own story of sexual abuse in church, and urges Christian men to help make the Church a place that is safe for everyone In my short lifetime I have witnessed one of the greatest revolutions in the history of the West ...
2025-06-30T11:27:00Z By Monique Bailey
When street evangelist Monique Bailey set out to share the gospel in King’s Cross, she didn’t expect a police officer to stand in her way. She explains why the experience reminded her of the need for every Christian to bring light into dark places, no matter the consequences
2025-06-27T13:31:00Z By Andrew Mitchell
Worship artists make ungodly compromises in order to be successful in Christian music. That’s according to Cory Asbury, the writer of ‘Reckless Love’ who recently criticised artists for acting in ways which are “antithetical to the way of Jesus”. Scottish songwriter Andrew Mitchell, who himself stepped away from the Christian music industry in the US explains why he agrees with Asbury’s comments
2025-06-27T12:53:00Z By Hadden Turner
The conversation around the prospect of chlorinated chicken coming to UK has primarily focused on food safety, Hadden Turner says that focus is misguided, and much more concern should be directed toward animal welfare, environmental damage and what our food choices say about our faith
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