By Dan Martin2023-10-18T08:37:00
Last week was Baby Loss Awareness Week. Dan Martin and his wife, Anna, lost their son, Jed, when he was just three weeks old. He explains how the Church can help those who are bereaved
People who have lost a baby are hurting in so many ways. At the centre of it all, they have lost a dearly loved person. They are coming to terms with the loss of an entire future; of hopes and expectations for the coming months and years. Their minds are slow and numbed as grief dominates their inner circuitry. Simple tasks take 20 times longer than usual. Communication is a struggle.
Perhaps one spouse desperately wants to talk, while the other is shut down. Perhaps replying to messages feels overwhelming. Perhaps going to church and finding themselves amid a huddle of well-meaning people feels impossible. Grief, unsupported, can have a tragic way of isolating people.
As you enter into your friends’ grief and inhabit their pained landscape, will you embrace this awkwardness
Then there’s the mother’s physical suffering, as her body gives physical reminders of the baby they have lost. There’s the practical strain: taxes still need to be paid, the car needs repairing, bins need emptying. And what about any other children involved? Profoundly sensitive to grief in their own way, they look to their parents for how to process this bleak season. Lord Jesus, you who are near to the broken-hearted, please help us know how to love those who grieve!
2023-10-10T11:01:00Z By Antony Aris-Osula
Like the children in White Nanny, Black Child. Antony Aris-Osula was a Black Nigerian placed into white foster care. He reflects on his own spiritual journey and how he found his identity in Christ
2023-10-06T14:43:00Z By Tim Dieppe
Withdrawing medical treatment against the wishes of patients and families, is a sign that society does not value all lives equally, says Tim Dieppe. Human life is sacred and Christians must fight to protect it
2023-09-25T19:33:00Z By Emma Fowle
Being adopted left Fiona Myles with pain that led her down a dark path, but God rescued her, brought a precious daughter into her life and now she helps others find healing
2025-09-15T15:54:00Z By Billy Hallowell
He may have been known as a conservative commentator and founder of Turning Point USA, but Charlie Kirk said his faith in Jesus was ”the most important thing”, notes Billy Hallowell
2025-09-15T14:13:00Z By James Mildred
The assisted dying bill is still making its way through Parliament. James Mildred explains how Peers have responded to it, and explains what’s likely to happen next
2025-09-12T13:21:00Z By Andy Kind
The public murder of the Christian and conservative activist Charlie Kirk has prompted a variety of depressing responses, says Andy Kind. Our words on social media reveal much about the state of our hearts, he says
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