All articles by Margaret Ellis – Page 3
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My husband has withdrawn
"He never hugs me or says anything to show how he feels. I do not know if there is any feeling of love left for me..."
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She won't initiate sex
My wife never, or rarely, initiates sexual contact, or any physical intimacy. We never have sex spontaneously – it is always discussed and planned first, teeth cleaned, undressed, into bed and then I know I need to initiate all the ‘proceedings’. Every six months or so, we discuss our sex life and my wife promises that she will try to initiate sex more often. But after such discussions we may have 3 or 4 days before my wife remembers that she is ‘supposed to be initiating’...
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Sex makes me sore
I was sexually abused by my dad when I was a child. I am now 42. I have had three children; one was a premature delivery and he lived for seven weeks in hospital and then died. I had sexual feelings but did not have sex until I became married. On my wedding night I found having sex uncomfortable and it has been ever since...
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Archive contentWhy wait until we are married
We are engaged and getting married in nine months time. Both of us are Christians and know we are the right ones for each other. We have been praying and asking God if we should wait until we get married before we have sex, but are beginning to feel that since we are getting married soon anyway it should be OK...
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Married but still a virgin
My husband and I were virgins on our wedding night. As Christians we knew this was what God wanted and felt it would be best for us too. Not that we found it easy to keep our hands off each other before the big day. Trouble is - six months later we are still virgins! On our honeymoon we had lots of fun in bed but when it came to intercourse I felt too small...
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Should I see a non-Christian therapist?
I experience acute pain upon any type of vaginal entry. My doctor has failed repeatedly to do a cervical smear test...
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Rediscover passion for your overweight wife
Sometimes when making love it seems to be going OK until I am about to reach orgasm but then I just ‘lose it’ – i.e. there is no ‘feeling’ - it just comes to an end. My wife says she had felt me ‘come’ inside her but I didn’t feel it. This is happening more and more lately over the last few years. I am 54 and we have been together for almost 30 years...
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Pain turns me on
Agony Aunt Maggie Ellis answers readers' questions on sex and relationships...
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Can we use porn?
"To help us kick-start our libidos, we took to looking at soft porn together before making love. Is this wrong?"
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More Sex Questions
Maggie Ellis tackles three different sexual issues, including lust and female orgasms...
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Archive contentI was raped as a teenager
At the age of 16 I was suffering with depression. Things got so bad I tried to OD on my anti depressants but I was suddenly filled with fear so I went to my church youth worker, I passed out just after I arrived. The next thing I remember is waking up with him touching me. He told me that if I ever told anyone what he had done then he would tell my family about my OD. He then raped me. I tried to avoid him from then on but he managed to find ways to get me on my own and he did it again a number of times...
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He wants sex more than I do
How do you overcome vast differences in sexual appetite? My husband seems to want sex all the time and I just can’t keep up. I do enjoy it when I feel in the mood, but we are doing it so often that I now regularly just do the proverbial ‘lie back and think of England’!
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Archive contentSex and singles
I am now in my 30s and a virgin. Even though I believe that being a virgin has been the right thing, I dread the day one of my secular friends or acquaintances brings up the sex topic in relation to me. How can I deal with this?
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Can I use sex toys?
Agony Aunt Maggie Ellis answers readers' questions on sex and relationships...
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Flirting at work: where do I draw the line?
I am a new Christian and am picking up that Christians frown upon flirting at work. Why do they think this is so bad and unholy? Isn't it just a natural part of life and having fun to cheer up a dreary day?
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How Can I Protect My Child From Abuse?
Maggie Ellis tackles the difficult subject of sexual abuse, and how to create measures to protect your children...
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Even More Sex Questions Answered
Maggie Ellis tackles four different sexual issues, including contraception, blame and celibacy...
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Sex and Marriage: Your Questions Answered
Maggie Ellis answers your questions on sex and relationships...
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Orgasms, threesomes and bedsharing before marriage
We have been married for two years and my wife has never had an orgasm. Is this normal?
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Archive contentI've been raped
Maggie Ellis tackles the painful subject of sexual attack, and what to do if it's happened to you...
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